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What you get
How your Clarity Letter supports you
What you’ll take away
No generic tips, but a perspective that responds precisely to your questions.
Personal & individual
Every relationship is unique. That's why Elisabeth works with respectful language, without labels or diagnoses. Whatever your relationship looks like.
Fast
Delivered by email within 24 hours of receiving all completed answers. For a shared letter, this means answers from everyone taking part.
New perspectives
What the Clarity Letter helps you with
Your Clarity Letter is a personal professional perspective. It gives you orientation when your thoughts keep going round in circles. It helps you recognise connections that may have stayed hidden until now and develop new perspectives for your next steps from them. Elisabeth personally reviews and revises every letter, bringing her professional expertise to your individual situation.
If you don't want to keep going round in circles, start your Clarity Letter now.
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What a Clarity Letter can look like
Fictional excerpt for illustration only · not an actual client's letter
You describe wanting a little quiet after work, while also valuing time together. Those wishes do not have to cancel each other out. It may help to separate the need for a pause from the question of how much you care about each other.
What would a pause that feels clear and considerate look like for you? One possible next step is to explain what you need and agree together on when to reconnect, rather than expecting either of you to guess.
This is one possible perspective, not a conclusion about either person's motives. Your own letter is based on your completed answers.
How it works
From your spinning thoughts to clarity
Order & answer the questions
Choose the number of people and enter everyone’s email address before payment. Afterwards, each person answers three questions independently.
Personally reviewed and revised
Elisabeth personally reviews and revises every letter, bringing her professional expertise to your individual situation.
Within 24 hours
Delivered by email within 24 hours of receiving all completed answers, with a personal perspective and practical prompts for your next step.
Free · 18 questions · about 8 minutes
Would you like to go even deeper into your relationship?
Then also try the free Relationship Compass. In about eight minutes you receive a personal snapshot of your needs and fresh food for thought. To include your snapshot, order the Clarity Letter from your Compass result, or from your pair comparison for a shared letter. A separate direct order does not automatically link earlier results.
The Relationship Compass is not a requirement. If you have both already completed it and want your results included, start the Clarity Letter directly from your pair comparison.
Start the free CompassExplore six dimensions of your relationship needs:
- Closeness & Personal space
- Stability & Aliveness
- One central bond & Multiple bonds
- Structure & Flow
- Opening up & Sitting with it
- Clear commitments & Talking it through
Personal support
Sometimes it takes more than a letter.
The Clarity Letter is a reflection aid. If you're looking for a conversation, Elisabeth supports you personally, in Vienna or online.
Letter or conversation?
Clarity Letter
- Format
- In writing, read at your own pace
- Timing
- No appointment, by email
- Scope
- Three open-ended questions
- Price
- €99 incl. 20% VAT
Personal counselling
- Format
- Conversation in Vienna or online
- Timing
- At the time you book
- Scope
- 50 or 100 minutes
- Price
- from €165 incl. 20% VAT
Relationship counselling
Conflicts, crises, changes: on your own or as a couple.
Learn more (in German)Sexual counselling
Shaping sexuality and intimacy: fantasies, wishes and every question around sexuality have a place here.
Learn more (in German)Polyamory & open relationships
Every question around ethical non-monogamy, agreements and relationship identity finds a judgement-free space here.
Learn more (in German)
Before you order
Frequently asked questions
How much does the Clarity Letter cost?
The Clarity Letter costs €99 incl. 20% VAT, whether you order it for yourself, for the two of you or for up to four people.
How quickly will I receive my Clarity Letter?
Elisabeth responds to your questions individually and prepares your personal Clarity Letter. It is sent to you by email within 24 hours of receiving the complete answers, from everyone taking part for a shared letter.
Is the Clarity Letter therapy or a diagnosis?
No. The letter is a personal reflection aid. It can explain connections, sort your thoughts and offer prompts for your next step. It does not replace a longer counselling process, psychotherapy or crisis support.
How does the Clarity Letter work for two or more people?
One person selects the number of people and enters everyone’s email addresses before payment. After answering their own questions, they send the email invitations. Everyone answers separately and gives their own consent. Within 24 hours of receiving all answers and consents, each person receives a link to the personally reviewed shared letter. The group size stays fixed; wait for everyone or start a new group.
Is my Clarity Letter generated automatically?
A first draft is created with the help of AI. Every Clarity Letter is personally read, professionally reviewed and edited by Elisabeth, and only then sent to you.
Do I need the Compass to get a Clarity Letter?
No. You can use the Relationship Compass and the Clarity Letter separately, on your own or together. If you complete the Compass first and order from your result, your snapshot is included in your Clarity Letter.
Why buy a letter instead of booking a conversation?
A written Clarity Letter lets you read the thoughts again and again at your own pace, reflect on them and come back to them later. You can also book relationship counselling directly with Elisabeth at any time.
Who is the Clarity Letter for?
For individuals as well as for two people who want to understand their situation better and develop new perspectives.
Do I need to be in a relationship?
No. The Clarity Letter can offer orientation for you and your relationship with yourself, whatever your relationship status. It can also support you if you want to make sense of a past relationship or work out how you want to shape relationships in the future.
Why should I pay €99 for a letter?
You receive a personal written perspective on your situation, which Elisabeth prepares individually from your answers. You can read the letter at your own pace, return to it whenever you like and keep reflecting on it.
What happens to my information?
Your information is processed via Amazon Bedrock in the designated EU region group and stored for 180 days; payment records are kept separately. Special categories of personal data are processed only with your explicit consent. You'll find the details in the privacy notice.
If you don't want to keep going round in circles, start now.
€99 incl. 20% VAT · one-off payment · for 1 to 4 people · Delivered by email within 24 hours of receiving all completed answers.
The letter is a personal reflection aid. It can explain connections, sort your thoughts and offer prompts for your next step. It does not replace a longer counselling process, psychotherapy or crisis support.
Not an emergency service. If you're in immediate danger, call your local emergency number. To talk during an acute crisis: 142 in Austria, 0800 111 0 111 in Germany or 143 in Switzerland, free and around the clock.