What you’ll take away
Your snapshot explores six dimensions of your relationship needs, including closeness and personal space. See what matters to you right now, with questions to help you explore it.
Relationship clarity, starting now
Find out what you really need in relationships.
18 questions, about 8 minutes. An honest snapshot of your needs. On your own or together.
Free · No account needed · About 8 minutes
Your first step
How the Relationship Compass supports you
Get clear, at last, about what really matters to you in your relationship. The Relationship Compass helps you put into words the needs you may not have been able to name until now. You also receive follow-up questions that invite you to keep thinking. All of it is free for you.
Non-judgemental and personal
Every relationship is unique. That is why Elisabeth uses respectful language, without labels or diagnoses. Whatever your relationship looks like.
Right now & free of charge
No account, no waiting for an appointment: you start right now and are done in about 8 minutes.
Looking for a personal perspective? Your personal Clarity Letter.
A personal perspective on your relationship questions, with practical prompts for your next step. Answer three open-ended questions in your own words. Elisabeth personally reviews and revises every letter, bringing her professional expertise to your individual situation.
€99 incl. 20% VAT · one-off payment · for 1 to 4 people. Delivered by email within 24 hours of receiving all completed answers.
Frequently asked questions
What else you might want to know
Do I need to be in a relationship?
No. The Relationship Compass and the Clarity Letter can offer orientation for you and your relationship with yourself, whatever your relationship status. They can also support you if you want to make sense of a past relationship or work out how you want to shape relationships in the future.
Do I need the Compass to get a Clarity Letter?
No. You can use the Relationship Compass and the Clarity Letter separately, on your own or together. If you complete the Compass first and order from your result, your snapshot is included in your Clarity Letter.
How does the Clarity Letter work for two people?
You can order a shared Clarity Letter directly. If you complete the Compass together first and order from your comparison, your shared snapshot is included too. Each person then answers three open-ended questions separately. Elisabeth uses these answers to prepare your shared Clarity Letter.
What do the Relationship Compass and the Clarity Letter cost?
The Relationship Compass is free. The Clarity Letter costs €99 incl. 20% VAT, whether you order it for yourself or for the two of you.
Why should I pay €99 for a letter?
You receive a personal written perspective on your situation, which Elisabeth prepares individually from your answers. You can read the letter at your own pace, return to it whenever you like and keep reflecting on it.
Is my Clarity Letter generated automatically?
A first draft is created with the help of AI. Every Clarity Letter is then read by Elisabeth personally, checked professionally, revised, and only then sent to you.
Does the Clarity Letter replace counselling?
No. The letter is a personal aid to reflection. It can explain connections, help sort your thoughts and offer suggestions for your next step. It does not replace a longer counselling process, psychotherapy or crisis support.
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